The People Who Amazed Me the Most in 2011
Posted By janice on December 30, 2011
As 2011 rushes to a close, it’s the time of year when we all publish Top Ten lists and recaps of the year’s events, and I’ve already written two others for my own blog. As I wrote the other recap posts, I perused the year’s events, and I saw stories about people – amazing people. I knew I had another list in the making.
There are many people I could talk about. I could talk about the soldiers we have asked to sacrifice time with their families and even their lives. We ask so much from them. I could talk about the protesters who joined the Arab Spring movement in several countries to fight for what we take for granted.
I could talk about the amazing Gabrielle Giffords, who has shown stunning determination after a tragic shooting. The loving relationship between Giffords and her astronaut husband Mark Kelly are the ones we should talk about instead of the shallow ones lasting a handful of days.
I could talk about the Fukushima Daiichi workers in Japan who went back into the nuclear plant after the devastating earthquake and tsunami set off a meltdown. They could have easily said no, but they didn’t. They stepped up to the plate with great peril to themselves to save their fellow citizens.
But to make this list have real meaning, I’m going to write about the people in my life who amaze me.
Melanie Notkin of Savvy Auntie. Melanie’s first book – Savvy Auntie: The Ultimate Guide for Cool Aunts, Great-Aunts, Godmothers and All Women Who Love Kids – was released earlier this year, and I was proud to be part of her project. I love being an Aunt to my 10 nieces, nephews and godchildren who range in age from 19 to 1, and they are the joys of my life. Melanie is a fearless dynamo who saw a niche for we single women who love the children in their lives, took a brave leap of faith, and created an outlet for us. I’m a proud PANK – Professional Auntie No Kids, and I thank Melanie for giving us a voice.
Ellen Delap of Professional-Organizer.com. My fellow organizing colleague Ellen totally rocks. Ellen and I became organizers around the same time and have similar styles. Ellen and I can talk about pretty much anything, and we love to bounce ideas off each other.
My sisters-in-law Dawn, Katharine and Kimberly. I have an expanded family with my adoptive family and my birthfamily, and I am lucky to have such amazing women in my family. Dawn is a brilliant and compassionate doctor here in Houston, and many of my friends see her as their doctor. Katharine is so outgoing and perky, a great cook and an awesome mother to my two nephews. Kimberly is a dynamic woman who is a great mother and stepmother to three of my nieces and nephews.
Lisa Boesen. Lisa and I were introduced by a mutual friend during my early days at MD Anderson. Lisa has always amazed me with her compassion, optimism and kindness. She always sees the good in people and situations – a feat that I still struggle with. After her father and mother passed away within months of each other, Lisa turned her grief into something much, much bigger and created Compassionate Connections, a program she developed to put the “care” into healthcare for patients, their families and healthcare workers. Check out her website.
We also bid good-bye this year to several amazing people, the ones who left a gaping hole when they left. My own family and I lost my amazing Uncle Cletus, a giant who fought dragons.
Other notable passings I was sad to see were Steve Jobs, a man who made us want things we didn’t know we wanted; Elizabeth Taylor, the famous beauty who championed AIDS research and education before it was fashionable; Christopher Hitchens, the blunt and brilliant writer you loved, hated or both at the same time; and Patrice O’Neil, who was just damn funny.
As we stand on the verge of 2012, I wonder who will amaze us in the coming year.


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The Bishop’s Wife with Cary Grant and Loretta Young is among my favorite Christmas movies, and the plot centers around a bishop who is burying himself in his work, his lovely but worried wife, and an angel named Dudley, who is lending a helping hand.
It’s a Wonderful Life. No matter how much money you have in your bank account, no matter how much we’re all struggling right now, we are all rich if we have people we love in our lives.
Miracle on 34th Street. Believe. My favorite scene is at the end when Natalie Woods’ character, a little girl who was trying very hard to believe in the man she thought was Santa, is sitting in the backseat of the car, saying “I believe. Even though it’s stupid. I believe.” When she spots the house of her dreams, she realizes that it was good to believe in something.
Holiday Inn. The song White Christmas debuted in this Bing Crosby and Fred Astaire film. No matter where you go, remember where you came from.
Stores, such as Bed Bath and Beyond, have coupons you can use anytime. Other stores, such as Aaron’s Brothers, Ulta and Kirkland’s, to name a few, will send you coupons if you sign up for their emails. If you have a CVS card, you can receive coupons to use for your next purchase. For example, I received a $5 off coupon that I plan to use to purchase a Burt’s Bees set for my niece.
For a movie night theme, pick up a DVD or two, popcorn and candy. With the movie night theme, you can go in all sorts of directions – Retro, Brat Pack, cartoons, action flicks, etc.






